- Love is not a performance, it must be genuine. But not every "I love you" is spoken sincerely.
- As a gentleman, it's necessary to notice if a woman is emotionally involved, or if she is just playing games.
Love is not a performance, it must be genuine. But not every "I love you" is spoken sincerely. As a gentleman, it's necessary to notice if a woman is emotionally involved, or if she is just playing games.
For convenience' sake, ego, cash, or tedium, some women fake love with one foot out the door.
Here's how to know:
1. Her Words Say "Love" but Her Actions Don't Align
If she says she loves you, but is emotionally distant, distant, or indifferent to your life, it's a red flag. Real love is seen in behavior; consistency, concern, small sacrifices. If you're the only one who's working hard, question the equity.
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2. She's Hot and Cold: Emotionally Unavailable
One minute she's all over you, the next minute she's cold or ghosting. That emotional fluctuation is not necessarily mood swings, it could be manipulation or ambivalence. Real love does not incorporate confusing signals or second-guessing.
3. You Feel Like a Backup Option, Not a Priority
If she only appears when she needs something, maybe money, attention, emotional support, but doesn't have the time when you need her, she's not really in it. You're not her partner, you're her convenience.
4. No Interest in Your Life, Dreams or Struggles
A woman who loves you is interested in what motivates you. If she never asks about your goals, isn't curious about your bad days, or seems irritated when you open up, she's emotionally checked out, or never checked in in the first place.
5. Physical Intimacy Feels Transactional
Does she only become affectionate when she wants something? Is sex used more as a bargaining chip than an expression of closeness? If love is always tied to rewards or conditions, it’s probably not real.
6. You’re Always the One Apologizing or Chasing
If you find yourself constantly apologizing for something you didn't do or chasing her attention just to keep the peace, something is amiss. Love is not a game of survival.
7. She Talks About "Us" ,But Plans Only for Herself
She uses terms like "forever" and "we," but never asks you about your future plans on maybe vacations, money and saving or even dreams. That shows that her conception of love is wordplay, not action.
A lady faking to love you will always have you wondering, emotionally drained, and questioning your worth. Meanwhile, a lady who loves you will provide you with clarity, peace, and consistency. Don't ignore the patterns, the silence and inactivity typically louder than "I love you."
Watch out. Protect your peace. And remember, true love never has to be questioned. Stay strong brother.
